I am a sewist*, an author, a teacher, a mother of 2 grown children, and a wife.

Ellen in a pink muslin
I am sewist:

Long sleeves on a table, from Creating Couture Embellishments
I love to make clothes. I love taking a piece of flat paper or muslin and creating a pattern, cutting out the garment pieces in a luscious fabric, pinning the pieces together, sewing and pressing the seams to form a three-dimensional thing that slides over the body giving voice to wearer’s inner vision of herself (mine or a client’s). Creating clothes is slow, meticulous work but oh, the final product. The final product speaks of me: the love and care put into the garment, and it speaks of the wearer: bold or soft spoken, brightly colored or muted tones, bejeweled or plain; if it accurately represents the wearer – she will stand tall and feel confident: an equal to anyone in the room.
I am an author:
It took seven years to “write,” edit and lay-out Creating Couture Embellishments, with lots of help from the publisher: Laurence King Publishing; I am so proud of this book. Creating Couture Embellishments is a 400-page, abundantly illustrated, how-to book with 3 sections: basic tools and techniques, fabric manipulation, and embellishments and trimmings. Within the 3 sections are 23 chapters covering 174 techniques including quilting, ruffles and flounces, passementerie, beads and sequins. The “writing” included making the samples, photographing the samples and writing the text to accompany the photographs of the samples.
I am a teacher:
I am fascinated by how students learn: some need to read a textbook, some need to see a demonstration, some need to do the project themselves. For this reason, I love to teach pattern making and sewing. The moment when an idea or concept suddenly makes sense to a student – the aha! moment – is joyous. It might be a small moment: a button needs a shank so it stands above thicknesses of the cloth around the buttonhole, or it might be a big moment: clothing alterations are like draping but on a real person. When a student understands the lesson- that’s the reward for a teacher.
I am a Mother and Wife:
My two children are very private people, as opposed to me, I will answer just about any question and I have no modesty. My children are amazingly smart, like their dad, they attended an Ivy League School, and are able write coherently about Enya and Chemistry in the same paragraph. My husband and I love their amazing partners/spouses! My beloved husband of 30+ years has spent the last 40+ years managing professional theaters. As he might tell you, like many former boy scouts, he is trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean and reverent. And a little silly sometimes.
*Sewist is the newest term for someone who loves to sew, as sewer can be confused with someone who loves to sew or the waste-water handler. Sewist is a combination of Sewer and Artist. I’m not crazy about sewist but it’s better than sewer.